Hi all, afraid a bit of a worrying question for me but here goes:
Firstly I’m a late developer, and didn’t hit puberty til 20. However at that time, I was dealing with severe OCD and Social Anxiety, which I have only in recent years managed to sort out to levels which do not interfere with my life. However I’ve missed out on alot of growing up and now my biggest obstacle is this. I feel that if people find out I will be alienated and will not be able to find a girl and also, that if I do they won’t be able to accept my lack of a past.
I am currently trying to deal with this issue but don’t really know what people would think. Have I missed the boat?
Thanks
28, Virgin, Too Late?
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at least you have a viable excuse – you had some issues to sort out so most people should understand that. Maybe don’t tell them till they get to know you . I don’t think you have missed the boat, the way to go would be through friendships because freinds understand things and feelings can develop later. also as your a man a oman does not have to know that you are a virgin, whereas if you where a women then it would be more obvious. If your still lacking confidence or would rather people understand things about you before a meeting then online dating may be a good option, as it just exposes you to wider sphere of people, All that said im very sure there are some people out there in this situation, women who have not got round to it because of issues like yours and what about men and women waiting till they are married, they are few but they do exist.
Not at all if you just want to get it over and done with go to a party and there are plenty of girls willing to have sex with you, however if you want to wait for a special person she won’t think anything of it. Our society is extremely sexualised so you might get some snickers but whatever.
Girls aren’t as shallow as guys. A nice girl would not take in consideration that fact that you’re a virgin.
A woman would prefer a guy that’s waited than a guy who’s a man wh*re that will sleep with anything.
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