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Best Friend Problem? :-(?

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well i’ve been best friend with this girl, lets named her amelia, for 1 year and like 3 months. she moved to my school last year so we become closer and become best friend. but she have loads of other friends that shes pretty close to! when she with me like only us two at lunch time or something she seem bored and when i said something she just return in one word. but when someone come up to her like a popular kids or boys she always up for a laugh and compliment them and talk to them but after they left she return to me! i feel sad. she never text me outside the school like normal best friend would but i know we only knows each other for 1 year. i want an actual friend that would text me, call me, etc. i dont know what to do is really hard to think! what is wrong with me or are mine just not social enough? any tip and trick to become bestest friend? or more social?
help please? thanks alot for the answer. no mean comment please.

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  1. Katarina Says

    Find some other friend! she is just using you! trust me on this, really. because i’ve had this situation happenlike 100 times to me! that friend of yours is not a real friend. you are a back up friend to her. She is just a total bitchh! i dont want you to feel bad about yourself at all. just talk to some new people during class. and also ignore that friend for 3 days. if she notices that your ignoring her, tell her EXACTLY how you feel and she may respect you more and become more of friends to each other. if she doesnt notice, slowly distance away from her. she isnt worth your time and your obviously not worth her time. PLEASE dont cry or be sad about this! go ahead and be mad. you have a right to. it may be hard to stop being friends with her, but always remember: SHE IS NOT A REAL FRIEND!
    this happened many times to me but this is what happened to me recently. my so called “friend” got in a fight with one of her best friends. she immediately came to me because she needed a back up friend. i was always there for her. as soon as her and her best friend made up, she totally threw me in the trash. she used me… please be smart and do what i say to avoid being thrown in the trash by amelia! hope i helped! xoxo

  2. Phoebe Says

    This person is not a proper friend. It sounds like she is using you as a back up friend for when she has no-one to talk to so don’t go for it. Its never nice when someone treats you this way, so don’t waste your time feeling bad and thinking it is you- its not, and this is basically a form of bullying. Go and find a new friend who likes you for who you are!!!
    Hope this helps! :)

  3. Icknield Says

    Hmm… She probably finds her other friends more fun.

  4. Sarah K Says

    I had that problem with my friend too. So i found another friend that really cared about me and she txts me all the time and has no problem finishes her credit on me and we can keep on walking with eachother for like hours without saying anything and just have fun. so my other friend that ignored me got angry and i told her how i felt so she started changing. so i encourage u to do the same look for another person that craves ur company. nd if amelia cares abt u she will notice and ask u nd u just tell her how u feel. if she dsnt then u have just found urself a new deserving friend!

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