dont try to get me to not do it.. i love god and jesus i accept jesus as my savior my life is just too wrong and its just the way i am i just want it to be over i wantt to know if its truee life after death
to me its not a sad thing its just something i want to do… i cant explain it and i dont know how to explain it… my life is fine i mean it has its ups and downs thats not the problem i justt want to its what i want to do i dont want to live i dont want to be here
king saul went to heaven after his suicide
i mean i have thought about this for 3 years now and the thing that would always hold me back is the fact of seeing what my mother father brother and sister would turn out or react to it
i just dont feel that anymore im 14 my parrents dont know about it
there have been times where i have mentioned it and they just yell at me
i dont want help i like being like this
IF I HAVE DEPRESSION I DONT WANT IT TO GO AWAY its hard to explain its who i am im just done with life
i dont care about my future i kknow that ill end up doing it sometime or another
its all i think about like if im in someones car i wish that a train will hit us or something so i dont have to do it myself
i have prayed to god asking him to kill me natrauly but nothing has happened
so religiously…. will i go to hell
im nondenominational christian I DONT LIKE CATHOLIC RITUALS OR PHILOSOPHIES****
like i dont beleive in purgatory or like you pay the church to go to heaven.. no thats old medeaval stuff not reality
i just dont want to go to hell… if there is life after death i want it to be peaceful
godbless to any1 who answers this



Sorry, but as a fellow Christian, I WILL talk you out of it. Suicide is a gamble with your life. First, it’s not just about whether you go up or down, it’s a direct sin against God, one that you can’t ask forgivness for on this earth (because true repentance means stopping doing that sin). Second, God isn’t going to kill you, HE LOVES YOU! We love you, we don’t want to see you die. You might think, “great, some creep on the internet loves me”, but as part of the family of God I do. I want you to live your life, it will be a beautiful thing. God didn’t give you your life for you to waste it, He gave it to you because He knew that you would do something amazing with His most precious gift. You are beautiful and amazing, I am not lying, because God made you to be that way. I know right now you feel distant from God and lonely and afraid, because it doesn’t seem like he’s talking to you or answering your prayers. I had the same problem a while back (I’m 14 too). I would just lie in bed and cry and wish God would kill me or I would do it. He didn’t seem to talk to me or anything. I felt so alone, no one could see my pain, I was just that happy go lucky clown everyone liked. But God helped me through that time and now I’m free!!
You know what you need to do? Read the Bible. I just opened mine up, and the exact verses that I needed to hear came up when I flipped around a little. The Bible is one of the direct ways that He comunicates with you. And keep praying, just tell Him how you feel, and ask Him to comfort you. Ask and it shall be given, maybe not right away or in the way we wanted, but God will do what is best for us. Trials help us to become more like Jesus, we become stronger. You need to pray and read the Bible, and DON’T KILL YOURSELF! Taking your life is not the answer to this problem. God will work it out for you. One day you will get to enjoy the amazing and beautiful Heaven that He has prepared for us, but first you must finish your life here. Now I want you to think about something. You think your hurting just yourself by suicide? Maybe, just maybe, one day you will save someone’s life. I don’t mean their physical life, I mean their spiritual life. If you save just ONE person from eternal death and hell and pain, don’t you think it would be worth it to just live for that ONE persone? Think about it. Maybe you will be able to share your experience with them, as I with you. Maybe I’m saving your life right now. Maybe that’s why I suffered, so I could tell you that God does come through and he will be here for you. Maybe. Well, now it’s up to you, but please don’t, I want you to know that it will all be okay in the end, God will come through, and He will provide. I will pray for you every night and day. Please know that you can e-mail me at peanutbutternpicklesyum@yahoo.com anytime if you need to talk, I might not answer right away but I always get back. God loves you, and know that I really will pray for you while you work through this. Read the story of Hagar (it’s in Genesis 16). She was in a tight spot, and instead of going to God for help, she tried to run away. But in the end an angel came for her and it was good. Remember Hagar and don’t run away but run to God in trouble and hard times. God bless you richly!!!
Suffering in life is nothing like the suffering of Hell; eternal suffering. Know Jesus and read the bible and seek the truth. Jesus loves you. Check YouTube; people have seen Hell. It is real and not a place you want to go. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EHe-T4qJu…http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jRXfFTLUs…
No, it does not send you to hell nor heaven. You need to do personal business with Jesus Christ to go to heaven and if you do not, then you go to hell. Choice is yours
Wow… Ur confused, my friend. Go talk to ur pastor. God has a purpose for u to be alive. Dont end ur life urself. I’m a nondenominational Christian myself. By the way, saul did go to hell. who told u he didnt?
my freind the only thing is that you would not be living to your full potential that god has pre ordained if you want to lose your life lose it for him seperate from this world and use the rest of your life to serve god
No.
Suicide ends your life.
Prayer to have something (god) end your life is useless.
Well, if you don´t want help and like being like this, then enjoy, enjoy ! Let us hear more about you.
by ethics, it’s ofcourse.
YES
If you have accepted Jesus , and you do what you talk about . What example would that be to non believers ? Your sins would be forgiven but you would lose any rewards you might have accumulated in heaven, and remember….. one day we All will stand before God for what we have done in the body he has given us to be stewards of.
I believe you will stay in hell and you will not move on to heaven if you kill yourself..I go through these stages all the time, but you do overcome it, god gave you the strength to over come the tough times in life, so look for that inner strength and use it..You have an amazing and beautiful gift of life, why throw it away?God gave you that amazing gift, don’t just throw it away..Live your life because you only get to live it in human form once..Things will get better and you will get better..
nah, there is no hell and the problem here with you my friend is not depression, is influenze by the religion wich tryies to scare you so much that it confuses you and takes away the simple joy of being alive, when u analized and question all that this religion(christianity in your case) u make an attemp to understant something that is not made to comprehend by real open hearth, it was created to confuse and control you by fear, don`t worrie about hell if you decide to go for it, i tried 3 times and all were unsuccesfull for one reason or another, so, take it easy and try to maintain sanity by considering the most insane idea….STOP BELIEVING IN RELIGION BUT MAINTAIN YOUR ACKNOWLEGMENT OF A HIGHER POWER…
death is not an end by any way, only a resent button in wich u may end up in the same level and with even less oppurtunities, family will not help but will get hurt, wait till mom and dad are gone so they don`t suffer if u do it…..try to make it simple.
the best terapy for death wish is to be close to death, u never more alive that we are about to die, try to stay in front of a train and see how long u manage to stay put before you reliazed that it was not a good idea….. i waited till 50 mts by the way….
I’ve overdosed 3 times since age 13 and God wants me to live. Why? DOn’t know, don’t care. But I will not try it again, even though I think about it once in a while. Suicide can be forgiven IF you have a severe mental illness. But if you are sane, you will end up in hell.
Hello,
It doesn’t matter what you or I think. Aside from mental illness or bad medications not properly tested suicide is classed as the Unforgivable Sin Against the Holy Spirit. It is the sin of despair like Judas where you are essentially spitting in God’s face and saying, screw it, I have no faith in you any more and I’m out of here. This is unbelief in God which is condemned.
As for being saved, we only will know when we cross over. The Calvinist Once Saved Always Saved is a damnable teaching and doctrine condemned by most Christian denominations as it contradicts what Christ teaches. Read Matthew 25 and 18 and you will see this clearly enough.
You will also find that many other religions condemn suicide. Even re-incarnation says you will have to return and live an identical troubled life until you learn or perhaps be reborn as a lower form of life like a dung beetle munching on elephant turds in the Serengeti.
Cheers,
Michael Kelly
Why don’t you ask the opinion of your friend Jesus? I mean, you know how to ask him, right? Not that you will get a loud verbal answer. Try to discern his opinion by feeling it in your prayers.
There is a reason why we are all here. Maybe we even asked for it. No matter how bad things turn out, we should not cower and give up.
Yours in Christ.
There’s nothing in the bible that suggests you would go to hell for committing suicide. That doesn’t make it acceptable, though.
First, as you seem to have realised, you have to think about the effect on your family and friends. There is a lot of research which shows that a suicide in the family seriously damages surviving family members for the rest of their lives.
Secondly there the bible’s teaching that you belong to God, the way that a slave belongs to his or her master – one of the words the New Testament uses for Christians is doulos, the Greek word for slave. The bible also says that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, so once again you are accountable for how you treat it. There is an old image of Christian sacrifice, of a coin with two faces; on one face is the ox sacrificed on the altar – as in martyrdom, and on the other face is the ox harnessed to the plough, called for a long life of service.
I understand what you mean about ‘if I have depression I don’t want it to go away … it’s who I am’ – some people with bipolar disorder, in particular, choose not to take medication for it, because they fear the loss of their creativity, or some essential part of their personality. But there are many different forms of depression, or many related illnesses, some of which can be very effectively treated without endangering the real ‘you’. You may already know, but there is a condition called ‘suicidal ideation’ where people are preoccupied with thoughts of suicide, and that can be helped, for some people, by medication. Not all medication will suppress your natural personality.
I think you would be very wise to talk to a doctor about your preoccupation with suicide. It is very likely that you won’t be able to talk about it with family or close friends, because the great majority of people are very upset and hurt even by you mentionng the possibility, and angry reactions are commonplace. You need to talk with someone neutral and and non-judgmental, and who has experience.