Basically I fell inlove with my best friend who I have known for all my life nearly now. We started out great she was always there when I needed her supported me thru everything .loved me unconditionally. I saw my future nd she was in every part of it, I wanted to marry her have kids with her and live our lives happily together. Nd to be honest I WILL NEVER STOP LOVING HER.
6 months into the relationship, I guess u could say I started not treating her they way she deserved. I would make plans and cancel at the last min, accuse her of being interested in other guys. I was abit possessive She always said im not there for her when she needs me, when she wud call sometimes I wud just not answer her calls. I lied to her many times, I went out to clubs dancing up on other girls nd givin them my number flirted with females on face book. [I ADMIT I WASNT TREATING HER RIGHT]
And after a certain point she decided she had enough and was gonna walk away if i dont change [she felt like if she died tomorrow I wouldn’t care which broke my heart to know she felt that way]
So I decided to be a man about thing and change my ways. But it seemed like the day I decided to do right by her she decided to become this spiteful, manipulative childish woman and after 2 months I decided i cant take the way shes acting so told her i needed to take a break, during this time I dated another person nd grew feeling for her real quick but I was still into my girlfriend/bestfriend. So I decided to call her and tell her I want to get back together She said YES.
So that means at this point I was in a relationship with 2 people.
Both knew about each other but didn’t know I was actively dating them coz all I told them was wer just friends. Cut a long story short
SHE went thru my phone and saw MSGs i had sent to this new chick nd was broken hearted to know I had done that to her [I DEEPLY REGRET HURTING HER ]
So she cut me out of her life completely for 2months then gave me a chance to mentain a friendship. Nd I have been trying to prove to her Im not gonna hurt her again , but I have noticed lately she has become a different person,. She doesn’t love me like she used to, shes extremely spiteful and has a lot of resentment towards me, i.e she goes around telling her friends i abused her WHICH I NEVER DID and she does things that I cant understand y, Im scared of how EVIL AND CRAZY SHE IS and i told her to seek medical nd mental help . I feel like I have lost her and shes turned into a EVIL monster nd has no good in her. BUT I STILL LOVE HER. what am i to do ?
Evil Exgirlfriend But I Still Love Her?
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well, the reason she’s acting like this is because you were being a jerk to her. she loved you, but you didn’t treat her right. and the only reason she has turned spiteful and has resentment towards you is because of the way you treated her. from this it seems like she is extremely heart-broken. and you didn’t help anything by dating 2 girls at once. you have to realize that eventually one of them will find out, and it just so happened to be your best friend. you need to talk to her and apologize tremendously for what you put her through. if you love her, why did you date 2 people at once? talk to her, and try to make things better. it will probably take a while, but at least try. and she might lesson up on the resentment if she knows that you are at least trying to be friends again like you used to be. i hope i helped, and i hope everything works out.
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If in the first place you didnt mess up in the beginning and you just stayed true, it mightve not end up as big as this. She is hurt. You are hurt. If both of you can talk without pride and just be honest for once, then maybe both of you can start over again. It was a bit immature what you were doing before so if both of you really feel strongly about each other, try to make things work.
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She is just backfiring from what you did to her. Talk to her and say how sorry you are and will do anything to have her like she was before and tell her she can trust you again and you will never do it again. AND you don’t hurt her again. Then bring her out on a dinner or something romantic.
Break up with the other girl if you decide you love your best friend better.
Good Luck!