My ex and I had a very intense relationship. We were each others’ first loves and we had plans to get married. However, we were long distance and he had a mental breakdown, so after a grueling month of fighting, it ended between us. He said he still loves me and that he won’t date other girls, but he needs time to himself to get his life back together. He said that after this semester, he would come back and fight to win me back. I believed him.
I of course was devastated and after numerous efforts to maintain a friendship, we stopped talking. Yesterday I finally contacted him and it turns out he has a new girlfriend. I was upset and said that he was quite quick to replace me, but he said that she isn’t replacing me, that his relationship with her is a joke and that he doesn’t love her, that he only ever loved me.
Why is he dating someone he doesn’t love then? Is she a rebound? I have not been able to move on because I am still in love with my ex, but he seemed to be able to get involved with another girl. Help?!
Ex Boyfriend Has A New Girlfriend…help?
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It’s always hard watching somebody move on; even though I’m over my ex it still hurts to think of him with someone else. I think you should try to move on too sweetie as hard as it is and I know its not what you want to hear, but its the best thing in the long run. If he really loved you he would come after you like he said; either he’s playing you or is trying to move on because he sees going back to a long distance relationship as unrealistic. I’ve been in a long distance relationship and they are doomed for failure; I call it the long distance curse. They dont work and it only makes you grow apart further and if he hasnt seen you for a long time perhaps he is trying to move on. I think that he’s confused; he misses you, but can’t see things with you working.
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I think you tell him to make up his mind and then leave it. If he truly loves you he’ll come back for you, but he broke his promise and you want a guy who can keep his word. It seems like this guy isnt to be trusted and you’ll only be a mug is you’re there at his beck and call, waiting around for him. I know this isnt what you want to hear and when people told me to move on from my ex boyfriend it wasnt what I wanted to hear, but now I know that they were right. You deserve to be with a guy who will be true to his word and wont mess you around. Good luck
He probably has a gf because hes lonely and just wants that comfort and stability of being able to depend on someone. He can’t love her if they’ve just started going out. I think you both should move on because you both gave it your best, and it didn’t work. Remember the good times you had with him and what you learnt about yourself.
he probly is a rebound, or hes honestly moved on your should try moving on too, it may be hard but try it you never know who you might find.
maybe he feels lonely
In all honesty it sounds like he’s playing you, I’d work on mending my heart and move on.