Ive been with my fiance for almost 4 years. i have a really bad temperament when i get mad or upset, i tend to hit him and say really hurtful stuff but at the en di never want to leave him and i go crazy if he says he’s going to leave. he broke up with me on december while i was in vacation for a month, it really hurted like no other thing, i thought he stabbed me in the back. he said he slept with someone else, but he said that once he was with the girl he actully quit and stopped becuase he was thinking about me.after we got back i promised him i was going to change, however i never forgive him for what he did, it really hurts me, he moved in with me and almost pays for everything. but im still so resentful i always bring it up cus im so angry at him, i thought he loved me and i don get how he couldve been with someone else. today i was going to move out, i freaked out, and he said that it was okay for me to leave. whcih really hurted me, cus he didnt even try to hold me back. however after that i regret what i said and told him that i was sorry when i wanted him to say sorry and hole me back. should i forgive him and start new or should i move out and never speak to him again?
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You need to get yourself together. You are the problem, you have to work on yourself and then things will be much better. You seem to like attention and have a lot of mixed feelings. You need to take some time to yourself to sort out your mind and your feelings. You are like an emotional roller coaster and chances are, that is why he did not hold you back or beg you to stay.
You seem to have a pattern and your man understands that and after being with you for 4 years, he has built up a defense mechanism towards your behavior. So maybe in the past he would have tried to prevent you from leaving but now that move is so old, poor guy can’t even be bother.
I say this with Love, get yourself together, a relationship is made up of 2 whole individuals and right now you are acting like a !/2 person. You need to be strong for yourself, control your temper, and build on your relationship so that it will be a positive and healthy one. You also need to stop resenting him, because in the end he might just begin to hate and resent you.
Good Luck
I would forgive and forget. But something you still need to realize is that marriage is a life commitment. If you don’t think you can make it a whole life time together then I would try to leave him. But don’t be mad at him. He stopped because he was obviously thinking about you.
You should get anger management counseling and fix your problem of irrational reactions to stressful situations. Your lack of skills and bad attitude will go with you where ever you go, so it would be best to get that fixed before you try to work on a relationship.
The problems you are having now, will re occur with the next guy.
You just sound very insecure, immature, and need to do some personal growing before you move on to another relationship.
You should stay together. Please do not unleash yourselves on the rest of society. You are perfect for each other.
You should work out your personal issues. Maybe seeing a therapist would be a good idea.