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Help With This Please 10pts?

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Before:
“Mike” was your bestfriend of 2 years (you both liked e/o). All of the sudden he started changing (he’ll rarely txt/call you). Then you asked him wassup with that? he said “I’ll explain later in person please be patient”. This went on for a year of rarely talking to e/o. Next thing you know you meet a new guy “Tim” and you start dating him. You never told mike about tim. Soon you got sick of it all and just told mike “sorry i just see us as friends only”. Mike got sad but he kept it moving.
One year later:
Mike calls you from mexico & finally confessed to you what’s going on and tells you his secret that now he’s a millionaire and he’s been really busy getting rich which was true he showed a bank statement it read 6 million dollars. He also said “You’re the 1st to know of my secret & the 2nd girl to know will be his future wife”. Then you told mike about your feelings towards him again & he then told you “Let’s just be friends please”. Now you see mike driving a ferrari & he just bought a million dollar condo w/ beach views. He’s even about to open a restaurant!. All mike talks about is women, just different women he meets all the time!.
How would you feel? were all just 21

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  1. atticusf Says

    You made a choice. You didn’t pursue Mike and his feelings. You didn’t know what he was going through. It doesn’t sound like you were considering his feelings, but only your own. Now that you moved on, you have second thoughts because Mike is wealthy. If you went back to Mike now, he could never be certain you were there because you cared for him or for his bank balance. If you weren’t there during the struggles, it doesn’t look like you have a right to be there for the good times.
    There are difficulties being rich. It is not easy to get there, and when you do, it is even more difficult to tell who cares for you as a person, and who is your friend because of what you can do for them. The wealth actually creates a barrier to many relationships.
    If you are a true friend to Mike, you will simply be there for him. Do not ask for things from him. If he needs someone with a good ear and a shoulder, that is what you offer him. Friends are there for each other. The do not demand for themselves. They may ask for help when they need it, but they don’t demand it. Try to be happy for Mike, and let him know you are. If you want to be more than friends with Mike you have to give it time. Lots of time.
    Remember, you also failed to share with him. You never told him about Tim, and you were the one who decided to make the break. That has repercussions.
    Friends are precious. They are also delicate and must be treated carefully.
    Good luck with that.

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