A few months ago i lost what i would consider the most precious gift ever to a loser boy in my neighborhood. Before you start judging and making fun, i’ve known him since i was in fifth grade. But i never really got to know him before “it” happened. Growing up with him i was very attracted to him but i always knew he was a man wh***. So i never gave him the chance. On top of that he had a child about two years ago. When he started calling me ten times a night i thought he was interested though. but when i finally went over his house the first thing he said was can we have sex. I didnt wanna do it at all, he shouldve known that. But since i was so easily swayed and manipulated i gave in. It was the most painful thing physically and mentally! So yeah, it was all signs to not let him be my first and i mad a huge mistake. I told him how wrong he was later that day and he cursed me out. I didnt care though i wanted him to know how angry i was.
Okay, so you know my story…and I’m very anxious to know, what guy is going to want me after what i did. I mean what “real” guy is going to want me? How can i hold my head high after being hurt like this?? will it affect my next relationship? So many questions…so little answers i have yet to get and understand. I hope someone can help out. Thanks to whoever can help me!
How Can I Regain My Confidence After Losing My Virginity?
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you should be ok just so long as you dont give anyone herpes
Past is pass ok thats it just the pass everyone makes horrible mistakes in the past and its ok there will be tons of guys that will still want u and yes alot of REAL nice amazing guys will also.. sex is a thing a couple that loves each other do to physicaly show how much they love each other in pleasure. A true real guy will not judge u for your past i promise. Make sure you love the guy truly love the guy next time you have sex
i think you need to distance yourself from the dating scene for awhile to clear your mind and regain your confidence, believe me you will dont worry……the best thing you can do is give yourself time to forget about it
My first sexual experience was with someone I was dating, but I wasn’t in love and I really wasn’t even attracted to him. I regret it, but I take it as a learning experience.
1. what guy is going to want me after what i did. I mean what “real” guy is going to want me?
Someone amazing who isn’t insecure and will accept you as an experienced girl.
2. How can i hold my head high after being hurt like this??
It takes time. Learn from this so you know to wait until your heart wants it too. You will always regret it, but you will learn to get over it and move on.
3. will it affect my next relationship?
only if you end up with someone who has less experience and wishes the two of you could lose your virginities together. Or if he is insecure and fears that this other guy was bigger and better. Take some time off of guys and do some thinking about what you want. To be honest, it’s rare to be a virgin these days. most guys would be relieved to know you’ve only been with one. Next time, your experience will be more pleasurable (less pain) and more romantic.
My best piece of advice is to not let your body control you. Make sure your heart wants it too otherwise you will have another one of these situations.
oooh sounds rough! i’m so sorry doll. no ones here to judge you though. and if they are, then their not worth your time. but hey, you made a mistake. we all do. but the plus is that you finally found out your outcome otherwise your whole life you woulda spent wondering how that guy is/was and if you should’ve done something with him or not. **** happens. you gotta let it go. i know it sounds harder than it is. honestly, believe me i’ve been through worse. but heres the catch. no matter what happens, the situation never brings you down. only you and your thoughts do. dont beat yourself up over this. and go out there and find yourself a sweet nice guy. there’s plenty of em! just go and explore but dont just tell guys your story straight up. let the relationship flow and if you seem to think he’s understanding and worth your time, then before you go into do something intense, tell him what happened. if he’s worth it, im definitley sure he’ll understand
. trust me. i know this for a fact. and yes there are “Real” guys out there who will want you even after all this. and my boyfriend always tells me, “always hold your head high. dont let anything in the world bring you down.” cuhz trust me, if you keep lowering your head THEN no one will want you. but if you always keep your head held high, then everyone will adore you and respect you. you made a mistake, we all do. i know its not a small one but hey, we’re humans, we’re suppose to f*** up every once in awhile! dont be so hard on yourself. just stay beautiful on the inside and out. this’ll all go by much faster than you’d expect. its good that you told the guy how you felt about it afterwards cuhz its important for him to know that youre not just any slut on the street. and it’ll only effect your next relationship IF YOU LET IT. just try your best to not let it effect you and everything wil fall into place(: stay strong!
Don’t worry too much about it.
Give yourself time and don’t blame yourself.
What happened, happened. The more you dwell on it, the more it’s going to hurt.
Work on rebuilding yourself. Spoil yourself a little, make you feel good about yourself again.
As for your next relationship.
When you find the right guy, he will love you for who you are.
No matter what.
Just be honest with your next guy, and you’ll find the right one sooner or later (: