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How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I’m Hurting Because Of Something He Did?

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My boyfriend keeps dumping me and asking me back. Every time he asks me back he always says “I’ll never leave you again.” He does leave me. He’s been doing it for years. The truth is, I don’t think that I can trust him not to do it again. I honestly don’t believe that his feelings for me are real. I think he tells me that he loves me just to make me feel good. But that feeling doesn’t last because he always dumps me.
I’m afraid to tell him how much he hurt me because I just don’t want to hurt his feelings. He’s a very sensitive guy and he has a disability so I don’t think he’ll take it very well. I need advice. The person who gives me the best advice will earn 10 points.

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  1. Anonymous Says

    You should tell him how you feel in a very respectful way. Yelling at a man who may be the head of your household someday is not a good way to have a conversation. So if you have any respect for him at all, you should talk with him very calmly and tell him how much you’ve been hurting and why you are hurting.
    If he really loves you then he will change. Believe me, I should know because every time I told my boyfriend about something he did that hurt me, he changed because he couldn’t conceive of hurting me and he would never want to. If he doesn’t really love you at all, he may get angry with you. If that happens, my advice to you is to leave for good and never take him back.

  2. Elyse Johnson Says

    You gotta talk to him about this, girl. I know its tough, but you have to. Its not much of a relationship if you can’t express how you feel. If he won’t listen and try and work things out with you, then its time for you to move on. He has been hurting you.

  3. Đ˜ichelle Says

    I’ve been in this kind of relationship.
    Dump him and don’t get back together.
    I know it’s hard but obviously he doesn’t care about your feelings, he’s not worth it.

  4. ILoveSmo Says

    girl, the next time he dumps u DON’T get back together! hes using u!

  5. Sarah Says

    The next time he ask u out again just say I can’t do this anymore

  6. - Miss Awesome Says

    it’s not an easy chat to have but you just got to tell him.
    sit him down & just tell him that it’s over, his constant need to dump you then ask for you back & saying he will never leave you again, then does, is hurting you too much
    see your decent enough to worry about hurting his feelings, but he clearly doesn’t give a rats about your feelings if he is dumping you very 5 minutes.
    break it off for good
    – if he loves you – why would he dump you in the first place??
    there is no excuse for that.
    It doesn’t matter if you guys have a disagreement or a full blown argument, or just because he has a disability – there are no excuses for him to treat you this way and you need to tell him to stop it or it is over – for good.

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