My husband and I have been together for 7 years. We have completely hit the roughest patch in our relationship. I cry almost everyday. It started when I caught him talking to other girls on-line and over the phone ( that was a year or so ago). I said I forgave him, but I have not been able to trust him again. When he lies to me, I lose more trust. He hs always been an active person, last week he went to the gym, but he was gone for six hours. I freaked out threw him out and he explained that he has done stupid things in the past, but is not cheating on me. He is angry that I don’t trust him and I am angry because I am scared that he will cheat on me. I don’t what to do. We fight about something different everyday, now when we argue he doesn’t even stay anymore. He leaves and I don’t know what to do? Please help.
Is My Marriage Over? I Am Confused.?
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For you – either learn to trust him or let him go.
For him – earn trust and quit lying or let her go on with her life to find someone who is trustworthy.
Him being gone for 6 hours at a gym would cause anyones eye brows to turn up, however if you are constantly on his case for stuff he isnt doing, would you blame him? He should not lie to you and you need to regain that trust or you both have nothing.
Never show a guy how much you dont trust him learn from the lifetime movies just let him do whatever and even though its hard just smile and tell him ok have a good day when he goes out. While he is doing that you can either hire a private investigator or follow him in a rental car or a car that he doesn’t recognize. Also you can act like your going out and be gone for hours either way works, but never show him your insecure side that will push a man away.
This marriage is over time for you to move on.
There is no trust in from your part any way and
no conversations either.
You guys better for counseling if not both of you
go your own way!
if i were married to you i’d say i was leaving for 15 mins and stay gone for 6hrs too. you sound like a gdam nightmare.
If there is no trust then there is no relationship. If u cant trust him u will have peace with yourself your relationship or home. Move on unless u can really forgive him and move on
If you don’t trust him now it is over. You will always have doubts and there is no turning back.
6 hours at the gym!? trust your instincts.
I’m not married or anything, but it sounds to me like there is something going on, either he’s with another woman or he’s just unhappy so he finds reasons to leave, even if he’s not at the gym, he’s somewhere else. I highly doubt he’s pumping iron for 6 hours. I think if you’re unable to trust him and he has no explanations of his actions, you could always seek marriage counselling, if he’s not willing to do that, maybe talk to him and see what he’s wanting to do. No point in staying in something that makes you cry and be unhappy daily. You seem like you deserve better than that.
Listen. If you chose to forgive him, then that’s what you chose to do. You CAN’T keep badgering him about it. YOU made the choice to stay. Your actions will only lead him to cheating again….which he may already be doing.
If you can’t truly forgive and let it go….then leave him.
Your relationship sounds like it’s about to end. You are fighting everyday practically, he leaves due to the arguing, he would rather spend 6 hours at the gym then with you. Somethings gotta give.
Obviously YOUR insecurities is what is getting in the way. you have the fear of losing control in the relationship, the fear of him playing games on you without you knowing. its the FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN. It is verrryyyyyyy difficult to regain trust when it has been broken. But he also needs to understand that as your husband he needs to work twice as hard to prove to you that he is dedicated to you AND ONLY YOU. the thing is, you will never know whether he is being truthful or lying. It is the trust that holds the relationship together. if you cant break down your fears and insecurities then it will never work.