Girl I was seeing told me she wasn’t over her ex. I believed her, she said they were together since they were teenagers and she is now 22. Thing is she sees other guys but showed me alot of attention and there was lots of attraction. We didn’t have sex, but spent alot of time together.
The whole thing is confusing. She got to know me for the entire year basically and whenever I see her recently she has tears in her eyes. We used to work together but I got fired when things got complicated.
She told everyone at work she had a boyfriend because they were hazing her for dating me. I’m good looking but I wasn’t that popular at work so she decided to tell them this and the workers turned on me, it lead to me making a mistake because I couldn’t concentrate and I got fired.
I believe she has bipolar or something. Inside there is a good person but she has multiple personas(which I like about her) which cause her to make random decisions. I found it stupid how she spent her time with me at work for 6 months and then told people I was harrasing her when she got bored or felt pressured.
I don’t see her now but speak to her. She is busy working and doesn’t seem to want to make time to meet. I really miss her, love her and feel she is a good match for me and to see her cry everytime she sees me makes me feel as if I shouldn’t give up. I saw her a few weeks back and she just looked so emotional.
Like we spent all our time at work together, we had a few dates and spoke on the phone….and she crys when she sees me? and I cry for her when I’m alone. Surely this must mean something. I spoke to her yesterday and she trys to make me jealous it was immature.



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Move on. She is playing games with your head. You need to let go of her and find someone that will appreciate you, and not care what other people say about you.
“I believe she has bipolar or something. Inside there is a good person but she has multiple personas”
She is a crazy b’itch……..crazy pussy aint that good. Move on
I feel your pain but from the sounds of it she doesn’t want to be anything with you .. If you were friends she would make time to see you. My advice since your a good looking guy just go get some casual sex, drink some beers with your friends, spend more time with your friends man.. That’s the **** theyre there for.
You could move on now , but if you really love her , then it won’t solve anything to just ignore the feeling . Try talking to her , really talk to her , tell her to cut all the crap first and just ask her what the hell’s going on with her . The thing is you know she likes you . She’s just playing for some reason , but she likes you , a lot . She’s emotionally unstable because of you , she cries every time she sees you , maybe she can’t see herself being with you for some reason , even if she likes you . So I guess the only way to make this all clear is to have a talk with her . I know it may seem awkward but once , you do it , you won’t even have to think anymore . Tell her you like her , ask her why she’s doing these things . If she decides to just talk with you honestly , then things will hopefully go well for you two .
Anyways good luck and I hope things go well for you .
coz of the romance at work , you got fired . that should teach you to not get into romances at work ! youve known her a yr , and nothings happened in this time . i doubt its gonna happen . she may be crying coz she was some how involved in getting you fired .
it might be her guilt , or perceived guilt ! it doesnt mean she really likes you . i didnt understand if youre back at work together , or working different places . she sounds like a friend , and nothing more !