I’m going to try to make a long story short. When I was about 16 my grandfather on my mom’s side passed and my mom started cheating on my dad. After a long, painful time, my mom and dad got a divorce, which upsetted me, but was the best. Now being 22, my dad found someone about 5 years ago, and we have grown really close. My dad, his now wife, my now husband and me all got married on the same day about 3 years ago. So we are all pretty close. My sister just passed away in Dec., and I just found out a couple of days ago my dad was cheating. I went to do some investigating, and found out he was. I am so hurt inside. Know what happened between my mom and dad, I don’t want the same thing between my step mom and dad to happen. Everyone says I should just bust in on them, but I don’t want to. I don’t want this to come between us. I’d like to talk to him, but don’t know what to say. Should I tell my step mom? I’m SO sad about all this! I just don’t know what to do. Please Help!!
My Dad’s Cheating On My Step Mom, What Should I Do? Please Help!?
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No, you shouldn’t tell your step mom. You should talk to your father. Tell him honestly what you know and how you found out, and ask him what’s going on. Tell him that you were really hurt when he split with your mom, and don’t want to go through the same. Be honest with him, and find out what’s the story.
Honesty is the best policy. Maybe your father will be shamed and will have to make a choice. In anycase, cheating is usually the sign of deeper problems either his or for both your father and your stepmom.
Good Luck!
If you want to confront anyone..it should be him, not her that is his place to tell her. He will always be your dad no matter what, she can be a step mom or not, ya know. I mean I know you like her but if you absolutely have to say something tell him or just stay out of it. Obviously your dad has some commitment issues.
I agree with them you should tell your dad first. Give him the opportunity to tell your step mother. They both might have a STD that would need to be treated. What he did was wrong and you can’t control it, he needs to live with the consequences. If your step mother knew something like this wouldn’t you want to know?
While,yes, honesty is good, i think praying is the best solution. Ask God what to do…But just remember he answers prayers i his own time..at the perfect time..ANd if you told anyone, I would tell your step-mom.(: Good luck, and i will pray for you.(:
Errrrrrr How could he do that! He was once a Victim Why! He sould know better….. Confront him first, if he doesn’t quit tell your step ma, because he could infect her…
Sorry I feel Bad for you, and I’m also pissed! :/
It is not your business.Everthing depend on your father.