I don’t want to cause a whole big scene, but I don’t want her to keep coming to me scared and anxious. And I seriously think they’re doing more than just annoying her. Though she is shy, she has asked them to stop messing with her and they basically just laughed in her face. All that I can get out of her is that they keep making derogatory comments towards her, but she’s been really jumpy lately, so I strongly think they may be touching or grabbing her. Ex. This morning at 7:30 , like I do every morning, after I go to my locker, I usually find her at her locker, and I always grab her waist and kiss her, but this morning she nearly jumped out of her skin when I touched her. I don’t know what is going on, but I am thinking about going to her friends and asking them.
What should I do?



Have a good, long talk about it with her. She shouldn’t have be afraid all the time around other people and she should tell you about it. As far as she’s letting you know, she could have been felt up or even raped. I’m not saying she was, I’m just saying she won’t give you any real information to make you think otherwise. She needs to tell you regardless of how uncomfortable it makes her feel. If something serious DID happen then it needs to come out and some kind of authority figure should be informed. Show her these answers, too. Having other people at your back can ever lower your chances.
Ask her about it first else she might get mad or touchy with the whole thing if you get second hand info so to speak. But if it gets worse and she gets annoyed with your questioning and doesn’t spill then yeah, ask her friends if you talk to them. Or figure out whose bothering her and do something directly to those douche bags.
Try to get them to stop without stooping to their level.
She will appreciate what you have done as long as you go about it without embarrassing her.
Awwww….You are so nice and caring. I wish I had a boyfriend like you. Just try to stay by her all the time. Maybe if she has protection they won’t bother her.
First ask them to stop messing with your girlfriend politely, because it’s not cool. If they refuse then tell them, “we have a problem, if i hear you messed with her again then next time we meet man up, try to mess with me and will see.” They will either back up or provoke you more. Be prepared to fight, you might win or get beat up. But you tried to protect you girl in the end though. She will like that.
P.S. wait for them to throw the first punch